He Loves Me, She Loves Me Not.

Well.

Well, well, well.

I've got quite a bit to say,

but for once I'm not quite sure where to start.

So i'll get straight to the point.

BOYS: If you like a girl,

and want her to be your girlfriend eventually,

you better let her know you like her.

And you better show it.

GIRLS: If you like a boy and want to be his girlfriend,

YOU better act like it, but be a little more reserved until you're positive he feels the same way.

Don't doodle your names in hearts on your notebook.

He'll pull the crazy card on you then.

Do these statements seem unfair and sexist?

Yep.

But am I right?

Yep.

Dudes don't want a crazy who they don't have to fight a little for.

Girls don't like passive jerks, OR overly clingy guys.

That's just life,

minus the exceptions.

So today,

BOYS if you like her,

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS BEFORE SHE MOVES ON.

Yes, I am talking to you.

and GIRLS if you like him,

don't stress.

If the feeling is mutual he will make it happen.

That's all.

Get to gettin'.

Love you all.

Bee.

For This Week.

Hey Line,
this will be super short.
I just wanted to remind you to look on the bright side of things this week.
And always,
but really try and focus on that this week.
See how much of a difference it will make:]

Hang in there.
Happy to help.
Bee

One Night Stands.

98 percent of the time that's all they are.
ONE.
NIGHT.
Ouch.
That hurts a lot doesn't it?
I know, it does.
Especially when you're the one hoping that maybe this means they like you as much as you like them.
They don't.
Especially if there's alcohol involved.
If they can't make a move when they're sober,
it's because they don't want the responsibility of actually making a relationship.
They're probably attracted to you,
but they don't genuinely care about you.
If they truly cared about you
they would make sure you knew it.
They'd have the guts to treat you well when they're sober in the daytime.
Let's be honest,
they're probably a really insecure person. [That's where the alcohol comes into play]
Alcohol is a big COP OUT btw.
It blows cuz you like them,
and thought that maybe they'd finally realize that you rock
and should be together...
But if they actually realized that,
you'd know it at 3:00 PM on any Wednesday,
under the influence of nothing.
When they hook up with you at night
and don't act the same in the morning,
it time to move on.
Get outta there,
and don't look back.
This is something you really have to be strong on.
Do NOT let it turn into a habit.
It was a mistake,
and it can always be that ONE mistake,
but if it happens again you can only blame yourself.
Don't let them fool you.
Don't be their booty call,
it'll only make you feel bad about yourself.
You deserve someone who will treat you well.
Don't worry,
most people have been here,
you're not alone.
Just recognize that you are better than this.
You don't want someone that insecure and immature anyway.
Lots of love to you Line,
just keepin' it in perspective.
As always, happy to help.
Bee